Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Thoughts as we prepare for Easter

LENTEN DEVOTION
This is not mine but wanted to share. A colleague from NYC is sending a daily Lenten Lesson out to his church members. Very insightful today.

Lent: Day 28
God Specializes In Mixing Your Successes & Struggles Together

The story is told of a conversation between a mother and her daughter. The 16-year-old told her mother that her life was basically falling apart. She said that everything was going wrong, that she's failing algebra, her boyfriend broke up with her, and her best friend is moving away. Meanwhile, her Mother is baking a cake, and asks her daughter if she would like a snack. The daughter says, "Absolutely Mom, I love your cake." 
"Here, have some cooking oil," her Mother offers. "Yuck" says her daughter.
"How about a couple raw eggs?” "Gross, Mom!"
"Would you like some flour then? Or maybe baking soda?” "Mom, those are all yucky!"  

To which the mother replies: "Yes, all those things seem bad all by themselves, but when they are put together in the right way, they make a wonderfully delicious cake! 

God works the same way. Many times we wonder why He would let us go through such bad and difficult times, but God knows that when He puts these things all in His order, they always work for good! Like that cake we must go through the hot fire of the stove to rise up into something wonderful.

You can believe this way, because God specializes in mixing your successes and your struggles together. He is the Master Baker, and He will fulfill His purpose in your life. Psalm 57 was written by David while he was on the run from Saul. After finding shelter in the cave he sought the refuge of God. Psalm 57:2 says:

“I cry out to God Most High, to God who fulfills his purpose for me.”

Coming to God in a passionate prayer free of the nonsense of pretense will yield a correct confidence that this verse shares. David knew that God will use his struggle to fulfill the purpose he was called to.

God will do the same in your life as you seek after and cry out to Him.
Rev. Ray Parascando
Crossroads Fellowship, Staten Island, NY 

For devotionals during LENT, go to My Daily Inspiration

Monday, February 22, 2016

There Is No Room for Fear in the Life of the Follower of Christ

I have to apologize for the lack of writing over the last 8 months. We have been through some heavy medical things in our family and I have been especially distracted. I have thought of a lot to say and write about but too tired or distracted to do so. 
I am not going to start a political discussion here but I wanted to share this blog post today. I think it is one the truest and most well written blogs I have read in a long time. I wanted to share and will be doing some writing of my own later but here is some food for thought for now. 



We need to pray carefully about who we vote for in the March 1st primaries. We have been talking about and praying about FEAR in our lives and this post applies as well. For followers of Christ, we must choose another path over fear. We must overcome FEAR and replace it with LOVE.

PONDER this verse this week and pray for the Lord God to banish fear from our lives as followers of Christ.   Fear affects our decisions. It makes us "uncourageous" and it can cripple us from doing what we have been called to do.

"There is no room in love for fear. Well-formed love banishes fear. Since fear is crippling, a fearful life—fear of death, fear of judgment—is one not yet fully formed in love. (1 John 4:18)


Thursday, June 18, 2015

From Small Things to Great Things....How God Used A Church to Share His Love in the Lower East Side.

This past weekend, our family went back to NYC to share in celebrating all that the Lord has done over the last 40 years at Graffiti Community Ministries/E. 7th Baptist Church. I was there as the Associate Director from 1985-1993. When I moved back to NYC in 1998, I worked at the Metro NY Baptist Association but was a fully devoted member at E. 7th Baptist Church serving in a variety of ways. I was able to be one of the speakers for the "80's" era at our Sunday worship service.
 When I went there, there were few resources available for "doing missions" and you truly relied on faith in the Lord for the provision. Here is what I shared.
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When I arrived in '85, I learned quickly about some "surface" small things.....though NYC is BIG  there are small things there too:
I lived in a very small apt in NYC
There was a very small storefront to do missions out of
I was asked to cook the Wednesday night meal in  a very small kitchen AND a very small stove to cook on.
We had a small mission budget
At that time, there was a small group of kids to minister to
We had small amount of supplies which consisted of pretty much a typewriter, copier, crayons and paper....
Because of those "surface small things" it seemed impossible to do missions in my very "small, unexperienced mind" but over the years,  I was reminded in various ways that "Nothing Is Impossible With God" as He can even use the small amount of the things we have to do GREAT THINGS.
After I arrived,  one of the missionaries told me that the kids in the neighborhood were very rough and were determined to make me, and everyone else, leave town. Well, they DID made me cry(while in my very small apt, of course): they made me cry with their antics, their "colorful" vocabulary and sometimes just not showing up. They were pretty mean kids on the surface. And, well, I chose not to leave. 
They soon got used to me and the others and we all began to invest in doing the small things in their lives. We called in volunteers to be partners for each of our kids, summer missionaries poured Gods love into them in many small and big ways, mission teams came and sharpened the space we had.
We called Fran Schoonmaker at Colombia's Teachers College to teach us about simple discipline and looking at their hearts and not their behaviors. They started coming more consistently. They expanded their vocabularies to more "civil" language and would actually beg us to spend more time with them. There were weekly trips on Sundays to feed them breakfast before church and field trips and sleepovers and birthday parties and even helping them figure out Math.

Graffiti Afternoon Summer Program(GASP) was started, schools and parents were visited. Tears were wiped and hugs were given generously and they were introduced to Jesus and some would become Christians and be baptized....and we as a staff learned about faithfulness and investment and commitment to a neighborhood that needed the Good News and our faith grew big and the childrens ministry grew bigger. My own small, inexperienced mind even grew a few more wrinkles.

Who knew what it would become today. God knew and He certainly has shown me that through doing the small things and sometimes even using the small physical things, great things WILL come.
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This, of course, is just one area that I was challenged in and grew in. I learned to love people just the way they are and if the Holy Spirit needed to change things in their lives, He would do that. My job was to love, to trust the provision of the Lord and to walk beside each person I met along the way.  I SAW transformation in people that society would want to throw away. I saw children grow up, making different choices than their parents that would take them farther along in their journey and make a difference in this world.

More than anything, I saw that God was real and He loved this city that everyone hates and He was there all over the city, calling people to Himself. 

The banquet we had on Friday night celebrated lives changed through Graffiti and how it has expanded to other places.  A lot of lives that were changed were not the people in the neighborhood, but those who served the neighborhood. God used those we came to serve to change our hearts and minds and lives forever!

For more information on Graffiti Community Ministries/E. 7th Baptist Church go to:
Some of the Transformed Lives Through Graffiti!
This is Bruce. He is a new creation in Christ and has been being transformed over the last 30+ years.

3 quarters of a family who has had major transformations in various ways(the 4th is in another picture below)!

Lives transformed through music.

People who continue to be transformed through serving.

Eli-One of our kids whose life was significantly transformed in Christ.


Alex-A gifted musician who used his talents and gifts to minister and was transformed himself.

John-who was once ministered to is now ministering to others.


Pastor Taylor Field -continually transformed because of serving.

Some of these photos are courtesy of Graffiti Ministries. The rest are mine!